now, i'm reading SEX, DRUGS AND COCOA PUFFS. since the last post, i read STARDUST. this thing is probably going to turn out to be a great big reading list. fantastic. how interesting. no, no, i'm serious. it's imperative that i remember on what date i finished reading X book. sure.
something about last night and rum and solipsism... jeni made a good point about relationships and solipsism: the two people involved do not merge, so there are always two selves in the relationship. two selves who cannot ever truly KNOW the other, no matter how much time they spend trying. not that it's not worth trying, but just that there's a better strategy than that: accept the other as other.